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Replacing porn with fantasies?

PostPosted: Thu Apr 12, 2012 2:48 am
by raidzero
Hey all,

I was wondering if anyone has ever tried to, or had success at replacing habitual porn viewing with simple mental fantasies. I am interested in stopping porn for a variety of different practical reasons that I won't elaborate more on here. I would rather instead "watch porn" in my minds' eye. The difficulty of course is that I am naturally at a disadvantage in that part of what excites me about porn is it's ability to present me with novel girls and / or girls doing novel things. I would like to hope that I could develop my imagination more and am actually wondering a bit if it could help with creative thinking in general.

So I guess I'm wondering if anyone has ever thought about this possiblity before, let alone tried it? And if so, what techniques could you suggest to someone who is starting out?

Side note, I'm not really interested in starting a debate about porn per se. :) Thanks!

Re: Replacing porn with fantasies?

PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2012 4:44 am
by hard-curve
I must admit I do watch a fair amount of porn, but will often stroke to erotic fantasies, frequently, but not always based on memories of past sexual experiences. I'll recall the first time a girl deepthroat-ed me, for example. Maybe, in my imagination, I'll add another partner, a guy (her best friends boyfriend, say) who is fucking her doggy style inches from my face as she sucks me, and the squishy slappy sound they make... But I digress. I might use the image of a girl I saw on the way to work, or a co-worker as a starting point. Memories work best, because, well, they are memories. You experienced them, and the detail is there: the texture of her (or his) pubic hair, the sounds she/he made. You can take the basic scenario provided by memory and take wherever you want. Fantasies can take on a life of their own, if fed properly ; )